Are second chances worth it?
This question has weighed on my mind for the longest time.
What guarantee is there that a person would not repeat an act if given a second chance?
Can you look someone in the eye, knowing their past mistake, and still believe in their repentance?
Some individuals will never give you a second chance regardless of how sorry you are and this is the truth. It does not matter if you're genuinely sorry and repentant, yes, they'll forgive but giving you a second trial will be far from the question.
These individuals believe that the odds of relapsing are very high therefore, “if it has happened before then there is a very high chance that it will happen again.”
We may perceive this group of people as rigid and unforgiving but it takes being hurt repeatedly to make a certain decision. One chance with them is all you have because they are all about prioritizing their peace.
I ask again, are second chances worth it?
Ultimately, the decision to give someone multiple chances is yours.
This is not an encouragement to let toxic individuals back into your space…some deserve just one chance to hurt you.
On the other hand, some people change for the better.
Forgiveness does not mean you have to give a person access to your life again.
Remember that second chances are not limited to romantic relationships, they can apply to many situations.
Understand that forgiveness differs from giving a second chance.
I'll tell you this for free; you do you.
If it sits right with you then by all means.
Protecting your peace should be your priority.
Valentine's Day draws closer, take some time to reflect…